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If you've ever felt a lil overwhelmed trying to buy sex toys, you're not alone. After all, there are so many kinds. From clit toys to bullets, to internal toys, to rabbits, wands, butt plugs, and more — it's a lot. Not to mention the differences in price, material, brand, and functionality. Between the high-tech, adorably small, and powerhouse versions, there's just a ton to sort through. Whether you're looking for sex toys for solo fun or sex toys for couples, we're here to help you narrow down your next purchase right here. Consider this our master list of toys worth trying and buying.

Whether you're a vibe beginner or pro, it always helps to ask yourself what you're looking for in a toy before diving into the options. Is it external clit stimulation? Internal stimulation with girth or length or both? Or maybe you're looking for a toy that's versatile enough to get you off no matter how you wanna use it.

Also, keep in mind that you'll have a better time if you get some lube in the mix. You'd be hard-pressed to find a toy that isn't made better with lubrication. While you can pick from water-based, silicone-based, or oil-based, we recommend water-based lubes as a general umbrella lube that's safe for all sex toys and condom usage. (FYI, silicone-based and oil-based lubes can break down silicone toys and condoms). A good lube will make things way more pleasurable — if you've never lubed up before purposefully, prepare for your sex life to change. We're fans of Lelo's "personal moisturizer" (a euphemism for lube, btw) as it's water-based and comes in a chic little bottle you'll feel nice seeing on your dresser or nightstand.

And thirdly, always practice good sex toy hygiene. You can wash your toys with soap and water, but if you really wanna ball out, it's not a bad idea to pick up some specific sex toy cleaner to use as well. Here's our guide on cleaning your sex toys.

Whether you're looking for your very first vibrator or your 300th, we're here to help. Here's our list of 140 of the best sex toys you can buy rn.

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Enby 2

Much like the original Enby, this toy is meant to be used creatively. It's a triangular-shaped vibrator designed for people of any gender. It can be humped, rubbed against, tucked into a harness, or placed between bodies for stimulation — the only limit is your imagination. What distinguishes it from the original is the fact that it's twice as powerful(!!!) and more flexible than the first version.

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Lush 3 App Controlled Rechargeable Love Egg Vibrator

High-tech alert: this wearable vibrator is controlled via app. That means you can put your partner in charge of your pleasure, whether they're there with you in the room or somewhere far away. It's meant to stimulate both internal and external erogenous zones for a truly mind-blowing experience. FYI, it's also super quiet.

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Bionic Bullet 5 Function Vibrating Penis Ring

This isn't your average penis ring. It has two separate rings (one that goes around the shaft and one that goes around the testicles), a textured sleeve designed to stimulate the clitoris, and a bullet vibrator. If you're still not convinced, one reviewer says this toy led to the "best climax of my life."

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Tempest - Intense Wand Massager

With eight vibration intensities and 20 vibration patterns, this velvety-smooth vibe will have you blissed out in no time. Did we mention it's also totally waterproof?

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Double Vibrator

This palm-sized vibrator may be petite, but it's powerful AF. It has 15 vibration modes and 6 intensity levels, plus, it's waterproof. So feel free to light some candles, turn on some music, and have fun in the bath or shower.

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Space Green Rimming Plug 2

This special 'space green' version of b-Vibe's flagship product isn't just aesthetically pleasing. It also has rotating beads in the neck that make it feel like you're being rimmed for a truly out-of-this-world orgasm.

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Candy Heart Dildo

Okay, this is honestly so cute. This 7-inch dildo has a slight angle to hit juuuuuust the right spot. Plus, the suction cup on the bottom means you can attach it to a bathroom wall or other flat surface for some solo fun. Or if you're looking to use it with a partner, it's also compatible with most harnesses.

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Girth Enhancing Vibrating Penis Ring

This penis ring truly takes things to the next level. It adds girth and oh-so-satisfying vibe action to a penis (or a dildo).

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Together Vibrating Double

Get double the pleasure with this vibrator that's designed to stimulate both internal and external erogenous zones for both partners at once. But it gets even cooler: the toy will sense changes in pressure on one end, and will adjust the vibrations on the other to match. So basically as your partner tightens up or reaches climax, the vibrations on your end will intensify to mirror them.

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Curved Wave Harness Set

This set includes a vibrating remote controlled dildo and an adjustable fabric harness. Plus, it comes with additional o-rings of various sizes, so you can swap in your fave toys.

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Rose Petite Massage Wand

If you like to mix things up, this is the vibrator for you. It comes with two extra silicon stimulation heads (one for targeted clit stimulation and one that surrounds it) and has 10 vibration functions.

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Vanilla Vibe

This wearable strap-on has not one, not two, but three(!!) vibrating motors that can be controlled separately via remote. You and your partner can both enjoy internal stimulation that's sure to leave everyone satisfied.

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Ina Wave 2

Just like the original Ina, the Ina 2 can stimulate both your clitoris while also providing internal stimulation that's oh-so-satisfying. The internal component actually moves up and down, similar to how a partner's fingers would. But with this latest version of the Ina Wave, there are more levels of intensity (12, to be exact) AND it's 30 percent more powerful.

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NOS Vibrating Penis Ring

This vibrating penis ring has both pressure points to target sensitive spots on the shaft and two vibrating extensions that are designed to hit the clit juuuuust right.

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Vibrating Jewel Plug

Who doesn't love something that sparkles? The flared base is not only cute, but definitely necessary for safe and comfortable sex (IYKYK). This toy has 15 distinct vibration patterns and is controlled via remote — so you can hand the controller to a partner and let them be in charge.

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Unicorn Wand 8pc Collection

How cute is this?? This set comes with an adorable card, an educational Pleasure Guide, stickers, a keychain, and a patch — and a vibrator, of course. The vibrator features 10 distinctive speeds and 20 patterns, AND a textured extension cover for internal stimulation. You're guaranteed to have a ~magical~ time.

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Womanizer X Lovehoney Pro40 Rechargeable Clitoral Stimulator

Um, yeah, it'll be hard to leave your bedroom once you have this. The clitoral suction simulation feature offers six levels of intensity, from a whisper-soft flutter to a super-powerful pulsing sensation.

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Pom

This sleek vibrator is super flexible, which means you can get creative with how you use it during both solo and partnered sex. It includes five intensity levels and five vibration patterns, and it's made with super soft silicone.

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Ignite 20 Function Finger Vibrator

This wearable finger vibrator offers three intensity levels and 17 different patterns to super-charge your sex game. Whether you use it solo or with a partner, we see lots of orgasms in your future with this cute vibe.

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Arc

Whether you prefer clitoral stimulation or the feeling of penetration, this luxe-feeling vibe does it all. Multiple reviews describe it as a "game-changer" and tbh, we're sold.

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Sqweel 2 Oral Sex Simulator

Yeah, yeah, you're basically like "been there, done that" with vibrators of every kind. Take things to the next level with this unique oral sex simulator, with 10 silicone tongues that you can set to rotate at three powerful speeds. Plus, with this handheld device, you don't have to worry about anyone's jaw getting sore from going down on you for more than 10 minutes.

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Magic Bullet

This compact vibrator is easy to use and surprisingly powerful, making it a good pick, whether you're searching for your first sex toy or you've already got a drawer full of them. Since it's so compact, this is a good pick to take on vacation with you, whether you're cuddling up in a hotel room with your S.O. or treating yourself to some self-care.

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Double Fun Vibrating Beaded Double Penetration Strap-On

This toy is basically the definition of "does it all." It has penis and ball rings, pleasure beads, and a bullet vibrator for a truly mind-blowing experience.

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Prostate Massager

This anal massager is controlled via remote (if you're in person) or via app (if you're across the world). The bulb is adjustable, so you can find that perfect angle for you. With 10 vibration functions, we think this toy will def hit the spot.

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Hot Stuff Warming Rabbit Vibrator

Wait, this is so cool — er, hot, actually. This rabbit vibrator has a warming shaft, so you can control the temperature. And we haven't even gotten to the fact that it has seven vibration functions and stimulates both internal and external erogenous zones.

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Strap U - Regal Rider Vibe

It looks like a lot, because it really does everything. It provides clitoral, vaginal, and anal stimulation to the wearer, while the ridged shaft is sure to have the recipient saying (or screaming) "Oh my god." And did we mention it has two bullet vibrators?

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The Unicorn Premium Limited Edition Riding Sex Machine

Okay, yeah, it is $1,900. But haven't you always wanted to ride a unicorn?? This limited-edition machine comes with all the bells and whistles: 360° swivel rotation, multiple vibe modes, two silicone attachments. After all, you only live once...

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Smart Wand 2

This magic wand vibrator feels kinda ~fancy~. Maybe it's the ergonomic curved shape, the super-soft silicone, the fact that it can go for up to four hours on a single charge, and the 10 vibration settings.

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The Booty Bunch Rechargeable Vibrating Butt Plug Set

Whether you're just testing the waters of anal play or you've got some experience already, this set is a game-changer. You can experiment with the different sizes and shapes included in the kit. But here's the coolest part: it comes with a teeny-tiny bullet vibrator that fits in all of the plugs so you can add some *good vibes*.

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Red Hot Rechargeable Silicone Flickering Tongue Vibrator

This sleek-looking vibrator has a flexible tip that flicks back and forth to simulate the feeling of someone's tongue on your clit. With three speeds and seven vibration patterns, it will leave you tongue-tied for sure.